Part of the beauty that lies in beer is the discovery. There are a plethora of styles, a barrage of nuances,and a myriad of contexts in which to discover the king of beverages. When the would-be beer drinker starts the quest of exploring a fresh world of beer, it seems as though the sky is the limit. Bottles are purchased, locations are scouted, rumors of rare bottles become fictive hopes…
And then it happens.
One day, the beer drinker becomes aware that the thrill for discovery is a little less thrilling. Searching for the rare bottle takes a back seat. The 100 tap handles do not seem as awe inspiring. As Scott from Manland once told me, the kid in the candy store feeling is not there any more.
There is no need for the beer drinker to worry; you still affirm your love for beer. For that reason, it certainly is not a matter of enjoying the beverage. Perhaps the cost of paying $15 for each bottle becomes a bit too cost prohibitive, maybe your interest was meteoric (you went to hard too fast), perhaps it is even the extreme nature of our beer culture combined with our programatic notion that the newest/latest greatest is the best. A number of factors can be sight to explain why the thrill is gone. Perhaps the most potent answer is the following: it was bound to happen. It was inevitable. The wave invariably crests and crashes. However, this is not the end.
If a term could be coined for what happens after the initial push toward loving beer, it might be called “beerturity.” It is not dissimilar to the difference between married love and dating love. At some point in a marriage, the equilibrium of love is reached. The lover begins to realize that a mature love, while not as butterfly evoking, is a much deeper one that can account for the lover in a way that was formally impossible while dating. But beer, of course, is not love.
So, there appear to be several ways to keep discovering/rediscovering beer. The route that I have taken is to delve into the history, food pairing, and brewing aspects of beer. In a word, my obsession has become more full and rounded. It is funny how the enjoyment of something goes. By all appearances, the more you know about something, the more you appreciate it.
Yet, I do not want to minimize the feeling that the thrill is gone. Perhaps a new thrill about beer (or something else) will be found. Maybe a new brewery will catch your eye. You may even possibly take up brewing. Just remember that an unalterable law of thrill seeking is that it is ultimately unsustainable. The person who has a deep appreciation and a profound gratitude toward an object can always appreciate it. This idea is very freeing.
I had a professor who used to talk about postmodernism being, in some ways, the discovery of a second innocence. Beer may not be unlike literary theory and epistemology in that sense. What I mean is this: The thrill may be gone, but a deep appreciation that will set in is far more thrilling in the end.
Thrill—>Discovery—>Lost Innocence—>Rediscovery—>Profound Appreciation
This it seems, is what every single person who loves beer experiences. I have you and you have (or will).
Every beer can’t be a high point. Gotta have some m’ehs in there. Otherwise you wouldn’t be able to fully understand the thrills.
It’s that contrast that helps us decode why we are attracted to one and not the other.
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beer_scientist Reply:
April 11th, 2011 at 4:10 pm
Agreed. You are bound to be disappointed at various junctures.
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Sounds like the same phases a relationship goes through, or a marriage.
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beer_scientist Reply:
April 11th, 2011 at 4:09 pm
Sallie,
Thanks for stopping by. Actually, that was the analogy I made. I think it’s a good one…seems like great minds think alike.
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Nothing like finding a stash of 2007 raison d’etre from DFH at my local store to rekindle the old flame. Have a good one.
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beer_scientist Reply:
April 11th, 2011 at 4:29 pm
You are right…especially if they are the same price as a few years ago. Sweet find. I’ve a couple like that myself (in fact, it was that beer). Cheers indeed!
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Great post, Mike. I can relate to this topic. I started drinking craft beer two years ago this June. I tend to be fanatic about things once I get into them and searching out and trying excellent beers (with your help) has become an obsession of mine.
Now, I’m at a crossroads of sorts. I’ve tried probably around 600+ beers in that time. Since then, I’ve established many favorite styles, but I’ve also become a bit “challenged” when it comes to trying new beers. Where a trip to Bevmo used to be a 20 minute event is now an hour; I have become very particular about what I spend my $$$ on and tend to avoid certain brewers, etc based on previous tastings, etc.
What I think usually happens at this point of craft beer drinkers quest for new beer is to take up brewing … am I going nuts or is this normal?
BTW .. I REALLY miss Sip with Us Saturdays …
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beer_scientist Reply:
May 21st, 2011 at 5:14 am
I hope you can relate, you inspired this post and I’m happy to see you enjoyed it. I think your assessment is absolutely normal. People tend to respond in different ways. Some just find what they like and stick with it. I have a friend how rarely drinks something other than an IPA. Other keep questing for rarer and rarer stuff, or search harder for new finds, even turn to ebay purchasing to keep the dream alive. I think traveling is also a good way to keep the bug going. I would also add that people often turn to trading. But for me, the shift went to trying to be creative, exploratory, or traditional in brewing approaches. With out a doubt, many people turn down the homebrewing road.
Funny you mentioned “sip with us Saturday”. I’ve been thinking about it too. I have been reconsidering introducing it on a limited or interactive basis. Honestly, we need to revamp the site a bit for some of stuff to happen. Maybe we could do it on a once a month basis or so. Nate and I will have a conversation about it too.
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Maybe we can talk about doing a collaborative website event every month. The beer would need to be something that most can find — that might be something we’ve all tried before but in the name of spreading the word of good beer might be worth it.
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michael reinhardt Reply:
May 22nd, 2011 at 8:02 pm
That is definitely something I am down to do. Not a problem…It doesn’t have to be obscure and I would love to do more to spread the word.
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